Proactive vs. Reactive Parenting?๐คโฃ
๐๐ซ๐จ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ ๐ฏ๐ฌ. ๐๐๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ ๐๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ? ๐คโฃ
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๐๐ฆ๐ข๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ท๐ฆ ๐ฑ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ช๐ด ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ค๐ต ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ โ๐ง๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ถ๐ฑโ ๐ธ๐ช๐ต๐ฉ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ค๐ฉ๐ช๐ญ๐ฅโ๐ด ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ช๐ฐ๐ณ. โฃ
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Reactive parents yell, scream and hit haphazardly when they have โhad enough.โ But this parenting style will backfire on you, because reactive parents always feel fed up with their childโs behavior. Instead of enjoying your children, a reactive parent is actively looking for their childโs next rule violation.โฃ
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๐๐ณ๐ฐ๐ข๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ท๐ฆ ๐ฑ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ช๐ด ๐ฃ๐ข๐ด๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด๐ช๐ด๐ต๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ค๐บ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ญ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ธ-๐ต๐ฉ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ถ๐จ๐ฉ. โฃ
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As proactive parents, moms and dads must decide what the rules are and what the consequences will be for breaking those rules. Consistency and self control are the two keys that work hand in hand to correctly disciple and lead our children. Remember, if we are inconsistent, we will overreact when weโve had enough of the bad behavior.โฃ
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We know proactive parenting may seem like hard work, but it will always pay off. You child will learn to choose the right thing because you have guided them in forming the correct habits and attitudes.โฃ
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Donโt โreactโ to your childโs behavior. Provide a calm example and consistent guidelines. No matter how much effort this seems to take at first, later childhood discipline will be much easier and your child will learn to do the right thing calmly in the face of frustration.โฃ
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Do you think youโre more of a reactive or proactive parent?๐ Honest answers only. ๐
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