Proactive vs. Reactive Parenting?π€β£
ππ«π¨ππππ’π―π π―π¬. ππππππ’π―π πππ«ππ§ππ’π§π ? π€β£
β£
ππ¦π’π€π΅πͺπ·π¦ π±π’π³π¦π―π΅πͺπ―π¨ πͺπ΄ πΈπ©π¦π― πΊπ°πΆ π³π¦π’π€π΅ πΈπ©π¦π― πΊπ°πΆ π’π³π¦ βπ§π¦π₯ πΆπ±β πΈπͺπ΅π© πΊπ°πΆπ³ π€π©πͺππ₯βπ΄ π£π¦π©π’π·πͺπ°π³. β£
β£
Reactive parents yell, scream and hit haphazardly when they have βhad enough.β But this parenting style will backfire on you, because reactive parents always feel fed up with their childβs behavior. Instead of enjoying your children, a reactive parent is actively looking for their childβs next rule violation.β£
β£
ππ³π°π’π€π΅πͺπ·π¦ π±π’π³π¦π―π΅πͺπ―π¨ πͺπ΄ π£π’π΄π¦π₯ π°π― π°πΆπ³ π€π°π―π΄πͺπ΄π΅π¦π―π€πΊ π’π―π₯ π§π°πππ°πΈ-π΅π©π³π°πΆπ¨π©. β£
β£
As proactive parents, moms and dads must decide what the rules are and what the consequences will be for breaking those rules. Consistency and self control are the two keys that work hand in hand to correctly disciple and lead our children. Remember, if we are inconsistent, we will overreact when weβve had enough of the bad behavior.β£
β£
We know proactive parenting may seem like hard work, but it will always pay off. You child will learn to choose the right thing because you have guided them in forming the correct habits and attitudes.β£
β£
Donβt βreactβ to your childβs behavior. Provide a calm example and consistent guidelines. No matter how much effort this seems to take at first, later childhood discipline will be much easier and your child will learn to do the right thing calmly in the face of frustration.β£
β£
Do you think youβre more of a reactive or proactive parent?π Honest answers only. π
Youth Empowerment – Learning and Innovation
Let’s give it up for our youth participants who had a blast during our Talent Tour event with Detroit Hives at the MSU-Detroit Partnership for Learning and Innovation (DPFLI) center! π We’re so proud of the 18 engaged youth from our Career Readiness program who…
Read More
Women’s History Month – Inspiring Women
Happy Women’s History Month! π Today, we want to give a shoutout to Dionna Jackson, a woman who has been making a difference in the community since 2012. Dionna started with the Yunion as a Life Guide and now serves as The Yunionβs Executive Assistant.…
Read More
Friday Yunion Parent Check-in
Friday Yunion Parent Check-in
Read More
Wellness Wednesday – Mental Health Awareness
Mental Health Awareness – Youth Mental Health: Myths, Misunderstandings, Missed Opportunities
Read More
Social Media Awareness
Thank you @maxstossel for the phenomenal work you do around Social Media awareness. We had a great day of encouragement and learning about social media! Students, staff, and parents all had the opportunity to participate. Max shared comprehensive research about social media and its effects…
Read More
Friday Yunion Parent Check-In
Friday Yunion Parent Check-In
Read More
Healthy Parenting – Boundaries
Parents π, Did you hear π Mr. Ron is out here using the βBβ wordπ€¬ Yes, he is out here encouraging parents to establishβ¦. BOUNDARIES! We know setting boundaries may seem like a daunting task, but trust us, it’s worth it! By establishing clear limits…
Read More
Wellness Wednesday – Trauma Informed Parenting
Trauma Informed Parenting
Read More
Womenβs History Month
Parents, itβs Womenβs History Month! Have you heard of Wangari Maathai? She is the first African Woman tie win the Noble Peace Prize. Wangari Maathai was a Kenyan social, environmental and a political activist and the first African woman to win the Nobel Peace Prize.…
Read More
Friday Yunion Parent Check-In
Friday Yunion Parent Check-In
Read More
Parents Are Heroes
Parents π, we have partnered with Detroit Public Schools Community District and their Parent Engagement Conference. Join us March 28th from 8am-3pm at The Renaissance Center at the Detroit Marriot where our CEO Jason Wilson] will be one of the presenters. The goal of the…
Read More
Wellness Wednesday – Parental Advisory and Intentional Parenting
Parental Advisory – Intentional Parenting
Read More
Talk To βEm Tuesday – Talking Prompts for Parents to Engage Their Adolescent
Parents π, itβs βTalk to βEm Tuesdayβ π£οΈ Todayβs talking prompt: βWhat is your favorite thing about yourself, and what is one thing about yourself that you want to work on?” This prompt can encourage your teenager to reflect on their strengths and weaknesses, and…
Read More
Parenting Teens And Tweens – Allowing Abnormal Aggression To Escalate Can Be Harmful
Parents, did you know “Verbal aggression is common among adolescents, especially boys, due to hormonal changes and a desire for independence. However, if this behavior becomes abusive or turns into physical violence, it’s important to seek help. Allowing abnormal aggression to escalate can be harmful.…
Read More
Students With Awareness & Goals – Stay Positive
Parents, hear what our students have to say about what they learned in their SWAG life skills sessions. βI learned so much from ‘swag’ today! Don’t give negativity to those who give you negativityβ – stay positive! #swag #positivity #lifelessons #nofighting #staypositive #spreadlove
Read More
Parenting Teenage Girls Is Not For The Faint Of Heart
Words from our Executive Director @mrsnicolewilson βBeing a mom to a teenage girl is not for the faint at heart. Our girls begin forming into young women and can often become a mirror for ourselves- who we were, who we are and the in between…
Read MoreBlog Categories
SEARCH THIS BLOG: